Space and Gap understood

Space and Gap – the difference explained as per my understanding 

Someone I consider a good friend said to me : There should be space in a relationship.
 I agree and agreed 

Kahlil Gibran says, in The Prophet, as counsel and advice on marriage (which was then considered to be the closest relationship)
“Be apart just as the pillars of the temple have to stay apart to keep the roof (relationship) from collapsing “
I agree 100 %

In my own world of words I realize that SPACE between characters and alphabets is essential for the structure of the sentence and its meaning .If space is removed the structure collapses!

So what my friend said is universally true and an essential teaching for any friendship to survive.

 empty space or opening in the middle of something or between two things
So I contemplated and came to understand that insecurity and lack of confidence make the SPACE  to be perceived as a GAP which we try to fill continuously

A GAP is defined in the dictionary as “an empty space between two things “ but if a friendship or any other relationship is worth anything this cannot be the definition

 If we are sure of ourselves and confident of the position of the other just as the pillars and words are we will see the difference as a space and will respect it and honour it !

 

That is my aim going forward